I wanted to be a beacon of black feminist love; my friends and family teased me for being a sellout We had been together 20 years, had two children and had a customary marriage with our village sub-county two years ago without any real plans for a church wedding. So we called our second ceremony...
Source: [Guardian International](https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2026/nov/04/african-feminist-white-wedding-christian)